Ready to come home to yourself?

This is not life coaching. This is soul work.

If you’re here, you already know the surface, level stuff isn’t enough. You’ve read the books, done the therapy, tried the affirmations. And yet something still feels off. Maybe you feel stuck in patterns that don’t make sense. Maybe you’re exhausted from holding everything together. Maybe you’re not even sure who you are anymore. You’re not broken. You’re shedding.

My work meets you there, in the sacred unraveling. I work with women and men who are ready to go deep. We don’t stay in the victim-perpetrator story. We don’t label or fix. We remember. We reclaim. We work at the root. This is trauma-aware, spiritually grounded, radically honest inner work.

I’m Nickita Starck, founder of When Push Comes to Shove, international speaker, activist, and student doctor of lifestyle medicine. My work sits at the meeting point of science and soul. I support people through the sacred unraveling that happens when the surface tools stop working. The therapy, the affirmations, the mindset hacks. You’ve tried it all, but something still feels off. You’re not broken. You’re shedding.

I’m not a life coach and I’m not a therapist. I’m a lifestyle medicine practitioner and inner work teacher. I help people understand that the blocks they face in life, health, business, and relationships aren’t just mindset issues. They’re survival patterns stored in the body. Most people are still responding to life through unresolved trauma. They’ve normalised anxiety, self-doubt, burnout or control because no one showed them how to track those patterns, let alone shift them. We’ve been taught to analyse, to push through, to stay positive, but we haven’t been taught how to feel, process and actually clear what’s underneath.

That’s what my work is for. It’s a fusion of lifestyle science, nervous system repair, trauma-informed tools and something deeper that I call inner alchemy. Inner alchemy is the process of turning pain into power by working at the root. It’s how we reclaim the parts of ourselves we suppressed in order to survive. This isn’t about labels or fixing. It’s about remembering. Every session is bespoke and co-created with the person in front of me. There are no scripts. Just presence, precision and love.

Whether someone is facing chronic illness, emotional burnout, relationship breakdown or business sabotage, it always comes back to the same thing. Are you living from a self-led, regulated place or from a protective identity that formed in a moment of trauma. I work with people who are ready to stop repeating the same loops, not by force or mindset hacks but by accessing their inner world clearly and honestly. When you learn how to do that, you stop chasing control on the outside. You start creating from safety. And that changes everything.

WHO THIS IS FOR:

• You feel like you’ve outgrown your life but don’t know what comes next
• You’re stuck in the loop of overgiving, anxiety or self-sabotage
• You’re longing to remember who you are beneath the roles
• You’re spiritual, but you’ve lost your footing
• You need deeper work to overcome physical illness
• You’re ready to live in full integrity, but your nervous system is holding the brakes

MY SESSIONS INCLUDE:

• Nervous system healing & somatic guidance
• Spiritual coaching & truth-based reflection
• Health, lifestyle & nutrition mentorship
• Emotional root cause for illness
• Deep deconditioning & inner child work
• WhatsApp support + community access (In group membership)

My approach is rooted in lived experience, cutting-edge science, deep spiritual integration, and fierce love. This is not about making you better. This is about remembering that you already are.

Biography

Nickita Starck is a globally recognised voice in women’s health, trauma healing, and human sovereignty. As the founder of When Push Comes to Shove and The Unity Project, Nickita speaks and teaches around the world on the intersections of physiology, inner awakening, and conscious leadership.

With a background in integrative birthwork, trauma-informed care, and spiritual coaching, Nickita is currently training as a doctor of Lifestyle Medicine. Her work bridges science and soul, offering a grounded, holistic path to healing that honours both the nervous system and the unseen.

Nickita’s approach is not clinical, it’s cellular. She works intuitively, co-regulating at depth, and walking beside her clients through identity collapse, ego death, nervous system repair and spiritual rebirth. She holds the blueprint for those awakening after trauma, burnout, or spiritual bypassing, guiding them back to the truth of who they are.

Whether on a stage, in a 1-1 session, or in her written work, Nickita’s voice is the same: calm, clear, uncompromising, and deeply loving.